Behaviour Nah Smoke: Why We ‘Edit’ Ourselves for Love.
“I’m not really a party person.” “I spend my weekends reading.” “I’m very patient; I hardly ever get angry.” Sound familiar? Chances are, you’ve heard (or even said) something like this during those early butterfly days. But let’s be honest: these aren’t always the full truth. They are polished, sugar-coated versions of who we wish […]
When Thoughts Start Knocking
Some days, my thoughts arrive like uninvited guests. They don’t knock politely – they tap the window, rattle the door, slide little notes under the frame, doing everything except letting me ignore them. And for the longest time, I kept pretending I didn’t hear a thing. Life was loud enough. Responsibilities everywhere. Feelings? Those could […]